What's the deal with power?

     Welcome to your life. There's no turning back. Even while we sleep we will find you acting on your best behavior.Turn your back on mother nature. Everybody wants to rule the world. Lyrics made famous by Tears for Fears. There is no denying that there is a certain appeal about power. But when does it go too far?
     With the desire for power comes breaches of ethics we have learned from a young age. Manners were taught, virtues were instilled, and values were passed down. However, there has been a recent influx of ways to "become more powerful". Whether it is financially powerful (getting rich quick), physically powerful (steroids), or socially powerful (social status), we have become a society that has become obsessed with being powerful. 
     Everyone wants to be rich. There are numerous classes out there devoted on getting rich. Comedians joke about it. Even your nightly news tells you how to win Powerball. But why is this so important? 
     Money is normally associated with power. Wealthy people are powerful. We look to Bill Gates, Oprah, Ellen, and all of these other high-profile wealthy people who seemingly radiate a powerful presence. We all want to be rich. Why would we want to be poor? The rich seem to have it easy. I know currently I would certainly like to be rich. But is being rich really easier? Managing money constantly sounds like a chore. Wondering if those around you actually care about you or your money also sounds far too taxing. But those are only two downsides compared to the numerous upsides.
     Being physically powerful has developed into its own culture. Gym culture is now a group of people who desire to be physically powerful. Let me preface this by saying there is nothing wrong with being healthy. I am not trying to demonize those who work out and become physically powerful for health benefits. But most of these people who desire this sort of power are not doing it for health benefits. It is for the pictures that they take to prove they are powerful. It is used to intimidate and is not meant for oneself. In fact many times the easy way will be taken out of it. Steroids cause water to fill up the muscles giving them the appearance of being bigger physically than the average person.
     This sort of physical power is not healthy. There are no benefits to steroids. Many times these people will over exert themselves, or workout with incorrect form to look cooler. This damages muscle. 
     Finally having a high social status is important. We can't be seen with those who are below us in status. We always have to be seen with our equals. We are always aspiring to be hire. It starts to get cutthroat along the way though. Being powerful and having a high social status usually go hand in hand. Those who have power, rule the world. 
     I don't mean to sound jaded about these people. It's more inquisitive. What has happened that made us as a society focus so much on power. Power over others, power over animals, power over anything. While everything is good in moderation, we have passed that point. And worst of all, all of this power has lead to control issues.
     Control issues can happen in personal relationships or even in world affairs. Relationships become toxic when one party has a desire to take control of the relationship. The power imbalance causes one party to rise and the other to fall. No longer are there equals, but someone "rules" over the other. So much for being happy. You can't be happy when you're in a relationship in which someone has more power. Romantically, it isn't healthy. But that is a different issue.
     Even in world affairs there has always been a power issue. From colonialization, to the nuclear arms race, to the Cuban Missile Crisis, to our current time, world power has been on everyones mind. We are currently fighting with Russia in a not so subtle war about who will be the world super power. We fear China because they have the potential to upset the balance of power. Power isn't just a problem on the individual level.
     But it is our fault. We always teach each other to want more power. We tell kids to aspire to be a leader and a manager. But we tell them that not because we hope that they will make a change in the world, but because we don't want to see someone else have power over them. Jobs pay better when more power is involved. Modern capitalism revolves around the acquisition of power. 
     So until we can figure out what our obsession with power is, we won't be able to fix the problems it has caused us.

Depression

     Depression is seen as a "phase" or a "stage" to some people. To others it is seen as a side effect of a medication. But for many it is something they have to live with all of their life. Depression is one of those issues where people say, "I am so sorry" then continue on with their life. It is hard for those without depression to understand those with it. The reason it is so hard is because it doesn't make any rational sense. Who would choose to be upset and negative all the time? It's not caused by a logical response. It can be caused by a number of things. May it be a chemical imbalance in the brain, or a side effect of a medication you are taking. Depression is no laughing matter.
     So what do you do to help those around you who are depressed? Well, who knows? Each case of depression is different. Some people are able to go on depression medication (which, ironically, can sometimes have a side effect of depression).  Other people aren't on medication. It is a hard world to navigate.
     This world is made even harder to navigate by the stigma that surrounds depression. Depression is a serious medical issue. Up to 15% of those who are clinically depressed commit suicide.  Over 15 million adults (18 and older) are depressed. If the issue is this big, then why is it not made a top issue?
     I think the reason is that it is not a big issue is because it is hard to talk about. Men aren't supposed to have feelings let alone talk about them. Depression brings vulnerabilities to men that they can't escape from. Women don't have it much better either. Their depression gets shrugged off as them being "overly emotional" or "it's their time of the month".
    We bring this problem upon ourselves because many of us are afraid of reflecting inwards. If you think confronting your inner demons is hard, imagine adding a chemical imbalance in your brain on top of that. Its terrifying for most people. But it is also hard to talk about because no one wants to admit they have depression. Those who are depressed will put on a happy face and walk around without anyone else ever knowing. How could someone who smiles be depressed?
     There is a lack of knowledge about depression. It is getting better though. High schools are starting to teach about the dangers of depression and ways to "prevent" it. There is no surefire way to "prevent" depression, only ways to manage it.
     Depression is a serious issue for all of those involved. Family, friends, loved ones, all of them are effected when someone in their life is diagnosed. To those without depression, I sympathize with you as well. It is a hard ordeal watching them on the outside. To watch someone who was once so full of life now look like an empty husk of their former self is heartbreaking. But what can you do? I guess my only advice would be to be there for them. They don't want you to go over the top. You don't need to by expensive gifts or read help blogs. They don't want you to list all of the ways the homeopathic remedy you found could cure depression in monks in Tibet. Rather, just be there for them. Listen to them, talk to them, include them in your experiences.
     It is hard for everyone involved. I get that. It is easier to do nothing. It is factually 100 times easier to do nothing rather than to do something. That much is true. But it is so much less rewarding. So my next message is for those without depression who may know someone who is struggling.
     You mean more to those around than you may know. And although you may feel like you have to "fix" their situation, know that this is not true. They don't want to be fixed. They may be depressed, but they aren't broken. It isn't your job to fix them. It is your job to be there for them. It doesn't have to be big, and it doesn't have to be a grandiose act. But it has to be meaningful. Create a lasting relationship with those around you. And although there is not going to be instant gratification, know that they will appreciate you for everything you do.

Animal facts

     Our planet is home to many mysterious creatures. We refer to these creatures as animals (not to be confused with the muppet). Many animals are cute and cuddly. Especially baby animals. But many of these animal have deep, dark, hidden secrets about them. The reason they have secrets, is because the truths about them are terrifying. Just kidding, most of the secrets won't scare you. But a lot of these facts aren't common knowledge. And a lot of these secrets hold serious consequences for both the animal and those who discover them.

• Chinchillas are closely related to Gremlins; they both cannot get wet. Chinchillas don't turn into monsters thought. Chinchillas fur is so dense that moisture gets trapped close to the skin. The causes a fungus growth that can cause an infection in their fur or skin. Not a good thing. 
• Research has found that dinosaurs probably didn't roar. Well that sucks. But we all know that the dinosaurs closest living descendent, are birds. Birds don't roar either. Because vocal cords don't fossilize it is hard to determine which one of these is correct. However, due to their close relations to birds it is hypothesized that their vocal structure is more closely related to birds. Examining shapes of the neck and throat helps to determine how the vocal structure of a dinosaur was set up. Nothing found has determined that dinosaurs roar like their on-screen counterparts.
• Jaws was not based on a true story. In fact, most sharks do not eat humans. Only 98 people were bitten by sharks last year, and only six were fatal. There are over 7.4 billion people on the planet. You have an infinitely small chance of being bit by a shark, and an even smaller chance for it to be fatal. On the plus side there is an average of 113 ladder related fatalities every year in the United States. Be careful when putting up those Christmas lights.
• Homo sapiens kill around 437,000 other homo sapiens yearly.
• The narwhal doesn't have a horn. It is just a tooth poking through its head. Also, only male narwhals have horns. Narwhals are also considered near-threatened. This is due to human activity disturbing them, combined with a low birthrate (one calf every three years).

Works referenced

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2016/07/12/think-dinosaurs-roared-like-in-jurassic-park-the-truth-new-research-says-is-a-bit-wimpier/?utm_term=.c54911205cef

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/2016/02/160209-2015-shark-attacks-el-nino-economy/

http://www.animalfactguide.com/animal-facts/narwhal/

Movies Referenced

Actual un-fun facts

This post is just going to be bullet points of things that make people sad.

• Around 40% of food production in the world goes to waste.
• There is a whale that "speaks" at a frequency that no other whale can hear. It is all alone.
• The smell of freshly cut grass is actually a distress signal. Grass is basically screaming as it dies.
• The girl who voiced "Ducky" in the movie The Land Before Time, was killed by her father.
• Small creatures (such as hamsters, guinea pigs, etc) will eat their own young if they are stressed.
• The Mars Rover plays "Happy Birthday" for itself every year. While it is alone in space.
• One in seven males will get prostate cancer.
• One in eight females will get breast cancer.
• Hedgehogs can get multiple sclerosis.
• We learned about the stages of hypothermia from Nazi experiments.
• Dogs like squeaky toys because it triggers their animal instinct of killing smaller prey.
• The 67 richest people in the world have more money than the worlds poorest 3.5 billion combined.
• Bears won't kill you before they eat you, they just will start eating you alive.
• The Yellowstone National Park is a super volcano.
• Woman in Saudi Arabia are not allowed to drive because it is said that driving damages their ovaries.
• There are vials of the small pox disease unaccounted for.
• Nursery rhymes are dark. In Jack and Jill, Jack fell down the hill and died. Then Jill dies afterwards. Ring Around the Rosie is about the Black Death.

I am sad too Michael Jordan.